About Wedding Speeches

You've made it to the reception. The speeches have started. Your hands have gone all clammy and your heart is thumping so loudly you wonder if anyone can hear it. The it's your turn. 'Ladies and gentlemen, the Bride!'

There's nothing unusual about feeling nervous. I've known brides who would rather jump out of an aeroplane than stand up and address a room full of well-wishers on their wedding day. And I'm not only talking about women who've never had to make a speech in their lives. Many teachers, lawyers and cool-as-you-like businesswomen can suffer with nerves on an occasion like this. Then again, some brides manage to make it all look so easy and relaxed. How do they do it?

There are two elements to a successful speech (and one that's enjoyable for both you and the audience!) The two elements I'm talking about are preparation and delivery. Put just a small amount of work into both and you will end up wondering why you ever doubted you could do it.